đ America, DearâYou Mistook the Snake for a Savior
A Trauma-Informed Guide to President Trumpâs Projection
You kept thinking someone would stop it.
That truth would hold. That the old words still meant something.
But every day, the meanings shifted.
Justice didnât mean justice.
Freedom didnât mean freedom.
A court decision meant whatever he said it meantâuntil it didnât.
They werenât just rewriting the rules.
They were rewriting the language.
And then came the voice.
Iâll tell you what to think.
It happened the way I say it did.
If you need to speakâIâll tell you what to say.
Familiar, isnât it?
If you donât believe this is whatâs happeningâ
I feel you.
Itâs hard to absorb that into your mind.
Hard to wrap your heart around the idea that everything is upside down on purpose.
Classic gaslighting.
But worse.
This isnât just someone manipulating a relationship.
This is someone manipulating reality.
Throwing so much at you from every direction,
so fast, so loud, so oftenâ
you stop asking questions.
You accept.
You shuffle along.
Because mentally, youâre just... shut down.
In my family, we just did what he said.
Because it was easier.
Real Life: The Language of Power
He doesnât burn books. He rewrites them.
In Florida, new curriculum standards reframed slavery as a "job-training benefit," stating that enslaved people âdeveloped skills which, in some instances, could be applied for their personal benefit.â
đ Reuters
In courtrooms, where justice should mean facts and law, Trump rebranded nearly every legal challenge against him as a "witch hunt."
đ PBS NewsHour
Onstage, he claimed he could "terminate" the Constitution to restore himself to power:
âA massive fraud⌠allows for the termination of all rules, regulations, and articles, even those found in the Constitution.â
đ Wall Street Journal
đ Politico
And when his supporters stormed the Capitol on January 6, Trump called it a "day of love."
đ CBS News
Words donât just lie now.
They erase.
They werenât criminals.
They were patriots.
The courts werenât defending democracy.
They were attacking freedom.
History wasnât recorded.
It was revised.
And stillâhe dares you to object.
Because the more you object, the more unhinged you look.
Thatâs how gaslighting works when itâs turned into governance.
Itâs not just my way or the highway.
Itâs my wayâor youâll forget what the road ever looked like.
America, dearâyou are in an abusive relationship.
âThe Thought Police are always watching. The only safe way was to think nothing, to know nothing, to believe nothing.â
âGeorge Orwell
You donât owe your silence to the abuser.
You donât owe your trust to an abuser.
They abuse that trustâand then laugh at you
for being stupid enough to give it.
"Like taking candy from a baby," theyâll say.
And nothing will changeâuntil you do.
Tbird
Founder, HadIt.com Veterans (Founded 1997)
Editor, Tbirdâs Quiet Fight
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