š Part 2 of The Snake Series
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My father was big into local and statewide politics.
If things didnāt go his way, it was rigged.
If he lost at the horse trackāsame thing: rigged.
āThey rigged it.ā
āThe fix was in.ā
The ominous āTheyā was always to blame.
That was the outward message.
The inward message was more insidious:
If your opponent gets the best of you, itās because they cheated.
You never had a bad idea or a weak proposalāthey took it from you.
It didnāt take me long to figure out Iād have to disregard his ālessonsā and learn to trust my own judgment.
That kind of thinking doesnāt teach resilience.
It teaches suspicion and self-protection.
It wasnāt strengthāit was just survivalāloud, brittle, and scared underneath.
š§ Pattern Recognition Isnāt Paranoia
When I heard Trump say things were rigged, I recognized it immediately.
Same tone. Same certainty. Same fear disguised as control.
We learn to read the temperature in a room.
We catch the shift in tone before the blow lands.
We sense when thereās a disturbance in the Force.
Thatās not paranoia. Itās pattern recognition.
We remember what manipulation felt like.
We remember how exhausted we were trying to make sense of it.
And we remember when we stopped tryingāand started getting out.
š„ Listen to That Voice
The difference here is: you are not alone.
If this resonated, stay with me for the rest of The Snake Series.
We are with you.
And together, we can say:
No. No more.